This is how we do it: ‘In our open relationship, I prefer “don’t ask, don’t tell”. But he wants the details’

Rick and Rachel are non-monogamous – but they both know this arrangement may not work forever • How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously I’ve tried knowing and not knowing, and I find both difficult. In an ideal world, we’d go looking for sex together…

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